Interesting facts of keep away your anger (क्रोध को रखें दूर)

  अक्सर आप ने बहुतों को कहते सुना होगा कि मुझे बात बात पर क्रोध आता है। शायद ही कोई दिन ऐसा बीतता हो जब  मुझे गुस्सा न आता हो। जब काम पर होता हूँ तो अपने बॉस पर या अपने सहकर्मियों पर गुस्सा आता है ,और मन ही मन उन्हें बद्दुआएं देने लगता हूँ। कभी कभी तो अपने पड़ोसियों या सहकर्मियों को शारीरिक कष्ट भी पहुँचाने का मन करने लगता है। आखिर ऐसा क्यों होता है।
  दरअसल रोजमर्रा की भागमभाग भरी जिंदगी में प्रायः हर आदमी किसी न किसी तनाव में जी रहा होता है। ऐसे में तनाव के बीच क्रोध या चिड़चिड़ापन का होना स्वाभाविक है। पर यदि हम चाहें तो थोड़े अभ्यास से क्रोध की नकारात्मक ऊर्जा को एक सकारात्मक ऊर्जा की ओर मोड़ सकते हैं ,और अपने अंतरात्मा को शुद्ध कर सकते हैं। बहुत से लोग क्रोध शांत हो जाने के बाद अफ़सोस और आत्मग्लानि का अनुभव करते हैं। लोगों को यह समझ में नहीं आता की आखिर इस नियंत्रण कैसे किया जाय। यह कोई जरुरी नहीं कि क्रोध किसी व्यक्ति पर ही आता है ,कभी कभी देश और समाज के हालात पर भी मन अधीर होकर उद्ग्विन हो जाता है , उस समय मन नकारात्मक प्रतिक्रिया करने केलिए तैयार हो जाता है।
   ऐसी स्तिथि में ज्यादातर लोग सिर्फ दो काम ही करते हैं। या तो व्यक्ति अपने से कमजोर व्यक्ति पर अपना गुस्सा तेज आवाज में बोलकर या फिर हिंसा करके उतारते हैं या फिर गुस्से की अधिकता की वजह से पास पड़े सामान को उठाकर इधर उधर फेंक करके अपने गुस्से का गुबार निकालते हैं। दूसरी क्रिया में व्यक्ति अपने क्रोध को दबा देता है। व्यक्ति अपनी हताशा और बेचैनी को मन और मष्तिष्क की अनेक परतों में बैठा लेता है और इसी को मौन सर्वार्थ साधनं का नाम दे देता है। मगर यह मौन नहीं है ,इसे ही कुंठा कहा जाता है। व्यक्ति जबरन गंभीरता और तटस्था का आवरण ओढ़ लेता है।,पर वक्त बेवक्त दबा हुआ हमारा यही क्रोध मन में एक घाव की तरह रिसता रहता है। ऐसे में कुंठित मन दिशाहीन हो जाता है ,और आदमी अपने लक्ष्य से भटककर बिपरीत दिशा की ओर उन्मुख हो जाता है।
    हमें प्रकृति सीख लेना चाहिये जैसे वातावरण में जब बहुत शांति दिखती है ,तो प्रायः सब लोग आने वाले तूफान की आशंका जताना शुरू कर देते हैं। आप सब जानते हैं कि पृथ्वी के निचे के टेक्नीकल प्लेटों पर जब दबाव बढ़ता है ,तो भूकंप आने का कारण बनता है। पृथ्वी की कमजोर सतह पाकर ज्वालामुखी फूट पड़ता है।तूफान या भूकंप का साम्य हमारे मन से है। व्यक्ति क्रोध को दबाने में अस्थायी तौर भले ही सफल हो जाय ,लेकिन मन के ज्वालामुखी रूपी गुबार फूटने की संभावना तो बनी ही रहती है।
         अक्सर हम जिसे बुरा मानते हैं ,उसे मन के अंदर दबा लेते हैं (जिसका किसी कारणवश विरोध ना कर पाये हों ). यही दबा हुआ हिस्सा भीतर ही भीतर घुमडता रहता है। अब यदि उसे निकलने का मार्ग जब नहीं मिलता तो वही एक दिन विस्फोट की तरह फट पड़ता है। कभी कभी यही हिंसा का रूप ले लेता है। यदि समाज से हिंसा कम करना है ,तो दबे हुये क्रोध को सकारात्मक तरीके से बाहर निकलना बेहद जरुरी है। अन्याय सहन करना अन्याय करने से कहीं गलत है। मगर हर छोटी छोटी बातों पर क्रोध से परिपूर्ण प्रतिक्रिया देना भी उचित नहीं है। हाँ ,यदि किसी अन्याय के खिलाफ आवाज उठाने या विरोध करने से किसी का भला हो रहा हो या किसी समूह का ही फायदा हो तो कभी भी हमें ऐसा करने से हिचकिचाना नहीं चाहिए। अंदर का दबा हुआ क्रोध बाहर निकल जाने के बाद ही चित्त शांत हो सकता है ,बशर्ते यही ऊर्जा सकारात्मक तरीके से सामने आये। गुस्से की सही अभिव्यक्ति सुरक्षा भी देती है और अनावश्यक भावों से मुक्ति भी।
        गुस्से के क्षणों में हर व्यक्ति को लक्ष्य की प्राप्ति की प्रबल इच्छा भी होती है। किसी समाधान के लिए किया गया गुस्सा अंततः लक्ष्य की ओर ही ले जाता है। लक्ष्य पाने के लिए क्रोध की ऊर्जा को ध्यान और समाधि की ओर मोड़ना पड़ेगा। ध्यान के अभ्यास से चेतन मन के अलावा अवचेतन मन में छिपे तनाव को भी सतह पर लाकर दूर किया जा सकता है। इसलिये हमें रोज पंद्रह से बीस मिनट किसी एक विषय पर आंख बंद करके मन को एकाग्र करने का अभ्यास करना चाहिए।  या फिर कमरा बंद करके अकेले बैठ जाँय। जितना भी क्रोध मन में आये , आने दें, यदि किसी को मारने पीटने का मन कर रहा हो तो किसी तकिये मारे पिटे। वह तो कभी मना नहीं करेगा। यह एक हंसने वाली और बेतुकी बात लग सकती है ,पर यह बहुत ही कारगर है। क्रोध को होने दें और ऊर्जा की एक घटना के रूप में आंनद लें। हकीकत में क्रोध ऊर्जा का एक नकारात्मक रूप है। प्रतिदिन सुबह केवल पन्द्रह से बीस मिनट का समय इस पर दें। इसे रोज का ध्यान बना लें। यकीन मानिये धीरे धीरे कुछ दिनों बाद आप शांत होने लगेंगे ,क्योंकि जो ऊर्जा क्रोध बन रही थी ,वह बाहर कर दी गयी। फिर किसी को पीड़ा देने की भावना धीरे धीरे ख़त्म हो जायेगा और फिर किन्हीं परिस्थितियों में आप को क्रोध नहीं आएगा। 

Death is a name of life

हमारा समस्त ज्ञान अनुभव से ही पैदा होता है। इसके अतिरिक्त अन्य किसी प्रकार से  हम कुछ जान नहीं सकते। शायद यही कारण है की आम जीवन में भी आदमी के अनुभव को वरीयता  दी जाती है। विज्ञान  भी स्वीकार करता है की संसार में कोई पदार्थ नष्ट नहीं होता। यदि ऐसा है तो संसार में नया कुछ भी नहीं और न ही होगा।
  दरअसल मन और मष्तिष्क का  आपस में गहरा सम्बन्ध है और शरीर का नाश होने के साथ ही वह भी नष्ट हो जाता है। आत्मा ही एक मात्र प्रकाशक है। इसलिए उसके हाथ यंत्र के समान हैं और इस के माध्यम से आत्मा बाह्य साधन पर अधिकार जमा लेती है। इस तरह से हमें प्रत्यक्ष का बोध होता है। मष्तिष्क के इन्हीं सब केन्द्रों को हम इन्द्रियाँ कहते हैं। ये इन्द्रियां इन यंत्रों को लेकर मन को दे देती हैं। इसके बाद  मन इन सभी को बुद्धि के नजदीक लाता है। फिर बुद्धि इन्हें अपने सिंहासन पर विराजमान महा शक्तिशाली आत्मा को सौंप देती है। आखिर में आत्मा इन सबको कंट्रोल करते हुये आवश्यकतानुसार निर्देश देती रहती है। तत्पश्चात मन इन मष्तिष्क केंद्रों या इन इन्द्रियों पर कार्य करता है , और फिर इन्द्रियां हमारे स्थूल शरीर पर कार्य करना शुरू कर देती हैं। मानव  की आत्मा ही इन सबकी वास्तविक अनुभवकर्ता ,सृष्टा और सब कुछ है। अब सवाल यह है की मृत्यु क्या है ? दरअसल मृत्यु एक पहलू है और जीवन इसी का दूसरा पहलू है।
     मृत्यु का ही एक और नाम है -जीवन और जीवन का एक और नाम है -मृत्यु। अभिव्यक्ति के एक रूप विशेष को हम जीवन कहते हैं और उसी के दूसरे रूप विशेष को मृत्यु। तरंग जब ऊपर की ओर उठती है तो मानो जीवन है और फिर जब वह गिर जाती है तो मृत्यु। सृष्टि के सभी यौगिक पदार्थ नियमों से संचालित होते हैं। नियम के परे यदि कोई वस्तु हो तो वह कतई यौगिक नहीं हो सकता।
  चूँकि मानव की आत्मा कार्य ,कारण और वाद से अलग है इसलिए वह यौगिक नहीं है। यह हमेशा से मुक्त है और नियमानुसार सभी वस्तुओं का नियमन करती है। उसका कभी नाश नहीं हो सकता। ऐसा इसलिए है ,क्योंकि विनाश का अर्थ है किसी यौगिक पदार्थ का अपने उपादानों में परिणित हो जाना। हमारे जीवन की समस्याओं का वास्तविक व्याख्या यही है। इसी से वस्तु के स्वरुप की भी व्याख्या होती है। 

Journey of human life

   We get human life from very good luck. Don't know after attaining the virtue of many births , then we get this life. There are many people who wasted his life in useless work. There are many people who take advantage of this life, and there are many who are just living or saying that the body is carrying as the burden. How much people are unhappy with this being miserable. Whilst any problem is not resolved by ending the life. They themselves remove that problem from their bodies, not from the entire family or society.
   We all must have seen sculpture of many great men. In his memory, places, roads, etc. are named after him. Memorials are built, children are taught their stories. Did they become a great man as soon as they were born. Every child remains an ordinary child at the time of birth. His education and rituals bring him to his destination in the future. At the same time facing the difficulties of life, they have to do as much as the common human does. Not every person can become a great man, but he can become a human being, and to be human in today's age is a big deal. On the day we hear, that in many places , people die from hunger or die from cold or die from heat. Do we ever hear our words ? At that time, we have ever wondered what we could do for them? May be we never thought. Anyway, in this fast life, people can not be share in happiness, sadness is too far away.
   Today, human have only one purpose, and that is money. Money should come , no matter what wrong or right. We never think that the wrong way earned money is always tragic. Sometimes the money shows his own effect in our own life. At that time we will be forced to do so that there will be no room for improvement. When we throw a finger in the fire itself, it will burn. It is our responsibility to waste your entire generation for some days of comfort or Dave them. This money effect our future generations in their future, because wrong is being always wrong. When we collect money by doing something wrong, that wealth deteriorates rather than the future of our son or daughter. Whilst they are not responsible, but they suffer.
   If we honestly earn money by playing our duties, we also get peace and happiness. If all people work honestly in today's time many problems will end automatically. Sometimes we give a happy to someone, how much fun in it is. It is the law of nature, which we will give, will find, just as if we abuse someone, then he will also abuse us.
   It can only be experienced by how much fun is there to help someone. If you can help someone with your help, then definitely. But not like those who already charge a lot of fees in the name of help. Help with selflessness is called help.

Power of Decision ( Root of Success )

   There is a saying that both of them did not get wealth in the twilight or God. This is what we call the situation of confusion. In this stage human consciousness becomes zero. Sometimes a person gets stuck in situations that makes it difficult to make a decision,what he decides. What is right to do or what is wrong? Generally there are such moment in every human life. It is also true that sometimes the decisions taken in these situations become turning point for life.
    For example, when a student thinks about taking admission in a college after completing school studies. At that time, the biggest problem facing him is to enter which college or the which stream will make our future bright. Or sometimes there is difficult situation in front of many people, when the parents sai that choose any of them, parents or husband or wife. You can imagine what will happen at that time. Occasionally in the face of youngsters who start new start-up, same situation that arise make decisions very difficult, and a small decision makes the whole future round. Then what should a person to do when deciding in such circumstances? Because the decision taken has the ability to change the whole life.
    When such situations come in life and it is important to make a decision, then take care so that they don't ignore it. Ignoring will increase the problem rather that  decreasing. At that time make a decision while focusing on all aspects, without being impoverished. God has given everyone such power that solution to such problems can be easily done. Patience is a very important thing for any problems. Patience evaluate your problems and your abilities. The decision taken according to our abilities is never wrong. Regardless of what you decide, remain firm on it and keep doing your work accordingly. That day will  surely come that you will feel that my decision was right.
    I want to tell about one of my friend, who were not much educate and had a bicycle sale and repair shop. The shop didn't run well, due to their son could not even much education. When the his son grew up, he told to his father to go to the field of real-estate business. The father explained to him his poverty and told that this business require huge capital. But he remained firm on his decision. The shop was sold and business started with the small capital amount near about twenty thousand Indian rupees, today his business is running in Millions. His decision proved right.
    The decision taken by impeccability or imitating someone is always harmful. Before taking any decision , make decisions only with regard to both side of the coin. Keep negative thinking away from your thoughts, because they will never let yet make the right decisions.
   Do not care about anyone else when making any decision. Never mind in mind what people will say. The decision taken by you , can change a lot. Your decision affects not only you but entire society or entire a country. Avoid small ideas, never compare yourself with others. Pay attention to your weakness but never tell your weakness to others. Always trust yourself. You know that you have all quality that exists in front of any successful person. Anything can not be made in one day but that can be destroy in a minute. For those who wants to achieve, the decision taken by you is just right, let this belief never break.


 

Priceless gift of Holi

       Congratulations to the all my readers from my side very much of Holi. A wonderful and precious gift from me on this Holi for readers.
  Friends, any family get more happiness from their children than wealth. The happiness that comes from child, the person is not met by any other means. When the kids speak Papa,and Mummy with their spelling,then the heart of a man becomes drenched with happiness. When anyone echoes the pain of children in the courtyard of their home,their parents can't be said the happiness.
  On this Holi, I have come with a priceless solution for my readers. For those who are destitute. No body can understand the pain of such couple. For those couples who are physically fit and don't have children, this solution is similar to that of a boon.
   This solution is something like this.
 The woman who has no children should start it from any Monday. On Monday morning,after bathing go to any Shiv-Mandir. Offer the cow milk there by bathing Shiva. Then by burning incense fire, pray in heart to get the child from Shiva. If possible,chant"Om Namah Shivay" in your mind. Do not forget to pour Belpatra before burning incense sticks. In this way do sixteen Monday. Sincerely doing this, your wish will definitely be fulfilled in these sixteen Monday. If you can not do it, you can do 'Rudrabhishek' the ritual of Shiva.
  Keep in mind that women don't tied to hair on Monday. Do this process with open hair only. So far the people who have done their wish have been fulfilled, I believe you will not be disappointed too.

Big Trouble can be Big Opportunity

    Friends, sadness and happiness come to be known in our lives. Every one wants to be happy, but no body wants to have any kind of difficulty in his life. As a person, he keeps on removing them, but there is trouble that never comes by asking. When, in what form does not even know. It is not known when the incident happened in our daily routine, and trouble comes in front of us. Then the man starts to struggle with him. Sometimes,one does not end yet, then another problem comes. Troubles keep breaking anyone. Many people are afraid of them and commit suicide. We should face them with stubbornness, because every difficulty leads to some learning. Nothing in this world is impossible, if our self-confidence is strong. There is nothing that can not be done. Swami  has said that get up, wake up, and get your goal.
   Fear of trouble is the work of wandering through their goals. It is like playing a game for the brave man to face any kind of trouble. Anyway, cowardly never initiates any work, they always have fear of loss. Perhaps it does not know that if God takes anything then he also give something.Which we can not understand and begin to blame for our fate, together with God also cursing.We must know that the troubles are the real test of our patience,courage and ability. Conquering the troubles is only a step towards success. You must have seen many disabled people who do not have both hands but they do not accept defeat and do all their works on their feet. Whether it is to run a computer,shave,writing something or have more important task of life. I am telling about a girl whose height is barely four feet, and she can not be stand up to herself without support.You can feel that such a girl has had face how many difficulties in completing her studies. She never panicked with the circumstance and one of India s most difficult examinations, not only pass the examination of I.A.S,,but got the highest rank in all over India.Has been a famous musician of India who did not have both eyes, but he has a very important place in Indian music, and he has received many songs from his music. Such people are in the number of thousands in this world, who do not get scared by the mischief-makers, but they have won the victory and get success. Example of a boy and I think it is necessary .To have just few years before both legs were cut in to an accident. That boy can not even sit,always have to lay down. To lying he earns approximately 18-20 thousands dollar a month by working online on his laptop, and in this situation also the support to his family members. If all of these people were scared of these trouble, then surely their family would understand like a burden.
    It is know, each and every trouble brings a great opportunity too. It is necessary to recognize that opportunity and take advantage. One time I tell to you, a saint was going some where. On the way, he got a herd of dogs, who started barking in his style. The saint were scared of those dogs, and the dogs chase them. Then a man met in the path, the saint sought help for him and said to that man save my life from them. The man scolded those dogs loudly, the dogs stopped listening to the scold and went one by one. Describing this incident with his disciples, the saint said that do not run away from any trouble, face strongly him, trouble will runaway.
     No body knows what will happen tomorrow, so to make our future bright, we have to fight every trouble. This is truth that the victory is always the heroes.

The Battle of Dangerous Thought

      Unknowingly, today the world is standing at the mouth of that horrible catastrophe, which can not be imagined. There are so many devastating weapons, if any of them have been used, the name of the targeted place will be erased. Then from that place will the human beings disappear till the grass. The whole earth will become barren and dreary there. In many countries of the world, some molestation groups are being killed unnecessarily. In the name of religion, innocent people are being murdered. Whereas, no any religion permits any innocent blood to be shed. Every religion gives the message of love and brotherhood. Religion is misused by some people for their own interests. In his followers, the facts are torn apart by misrepresenting facts.
     God created the earth, made man, but we humans made the country by distributing the land. By making their boundaries, we made our own laws. Even if the boundary is crossed without command-boundary, the bullet is also killed, whereas the whole earth is created by God. We divided people according to religion, and made their separate rites. We humans always beings changed, when nothing of nature changed. If some change has happened then that too is due to human beings. Being absorbed in selfishness, man has always been breaking the rule of nature. Due to this selfishness, there have been major battles in history. If any person has some kind of power then pride comes somewhere inside him.
    In the same way countries which have weapons with horrible massacres and they also suffer from such groups. If any of them lost patience and used those weapons, then what would happen at that time, and if others used the same weapons in his answer, then destruction would be a terrible form of destruction.As a result, some part of the world only will see piles of corpses. Later, if other countries also imposed restrictions on those countries, then what will happen , will be a catastrophe. Thinking about this,a person s heart will tremble. Thinking about this, did God made us humans separated from all beings. We live in a world where the Lord Jesus Christ drank the poison with his own hands for the good of mankind. Can we afford their sacrifice as children of their own?
      Can not even today human beings thinks that when we can not survive any body then there is no right to die. When human will be not in the world then what religion will survive.After all, there is a human then religion. As much money is spent on these weapons, if it is done on the poor of the world, then there will be not poverty and no one will die of hunger. What is the use of going to the moon or Mars when the person is still dying on earth by hunger and malnutrition. On the day when the death of a person will not be due to hunger and poverty, this land will literally become a paradise. Well, one day death for everyone, but naturally, a person lives the whole life.Let yourself go and give others the opportunity to live.